Clarity for mixed signals.

Your feelings are valid. See the pattern.

Niki helps you capture what happened, connect repeated behavior, and choose what to do next—with research-grounded guidance and a memory you control.

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Name the moment

Connect repetition

Plan the next step

One moment can feel ambiguous. What repeats is harder to dismiss.

Mixed signals are hard to judge in isolation. A real concern can be tangled with a put-down, memory can blur the exact wording, and an apology can feel reassuring before you know whether anything changed.

Niki keeps the exchange, its impact, the response when you raise it, and what happens next connected—so you can make room for alternative explanations without losing sight of your experience.

What happenedKeep the exact exchange.
When you raised itNotice accountability or deflection.
What changed nextCompare repetition, repair, and counterexamples.

Try the pattern, not a personality label.

Walk through a composite dating moment. Niki connects the exchange, the follow-up, related moments, and one counterexample—then helps you choose a grounded next move.

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Friday · 5:18 pm

A plan was made for you.

Read the exchange, then choose the part that lands hardest.

Your date
“I told Maya we’d both be at dinner tomorrow.”
You
“I can’t. I’m leading the workshop—I put it on our calendar three weeks ago.”
Your date
“It’s one workshop. You can move it.”
You
“People registered, and I’m the facilitator.”
Your date
“Okay. I just thought making time for us would matter more than one of your little projects.”

A memory for the moments you keep re-explaining.

Niki is designed to connect reviewed moments over time: exact observations, emotional impact, requests, follow-up, counterexamples, and changed behavior. Every pattern should remain traceable, editable, and forgettable.

Long-term memory

Moment Map

30 days

Based on 4 sample Moments

Repair appeared after 1 of 3 raised concerns.The other two outcomes are recorded as unknown—not “no repair.”

03 Jul
A plan changedImpact not raised
11 Jul
A boundary was namedFollow-up unknown
19 Jul
A concern was acknowledgedBehavior changed the next time
27 Jul
The boundary was tested againAwaiting follow-up

Capture without jumping to a label

Guided example

Keep the exact exchange, emotional impact, context, and uncertainty in separate fields you can review.

Cross-moment pattern review

Designed for memory

Bring related moments together across situations, while holding counterexamples apart and linking every reading back to source entries.

Repair and next-step planning

Guided example

Turn a boundary or observation plan into concrete signals: exact acknowledgment, reciprocity, a respected no, and sustained change.

Memory you can challenge and control

Designed for memory

Edit, exclude, forget, export, or delete remembered items. Every pattern stays inspectable instead of becoming a hidden score.

CDC · United States · 2023/24 data

30.2%of women reported lifetime psychological aggression by an intimate partner; 22.3% of men did.

Research belongs in the product—not just the pitch.

The need is real. So are the limits of population statistics, self-report, memory, and software inference. Our Research page shows the source, sample, date, definition, and caveat behind each major evidence claim.

CDC’s measure combines expressive aggression and coercive control/entrapment. It is not an NPD measure, and a population statistic says nothing about an individual relationship.

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Notice behavior.Refuse the false certainty.

Niki can help organize repeated boundary responses, reliability, minimization, accountability, and repair. It cannot establish intent, diagnose NPD, score a person, verify an event, or decide whether you should stay or leave.

A feeling is valid information. It is not automatic proof of another person’s intent, personality, or diagnosis.

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Your private life should not become someone else’s dataset.

The waitlist stores only the information you choose to provide. The walkthrough uses a prewritten composite and guided choices in your browser. The selections and generated clarity note clear when you refresh.

Personal memory is being designed around minimal collection, pseudonyms, deletion controls, explicit consent, and user control over every remembered moment.

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FAQ

Questions worth answering plainly.

Is Niki therapy?

Niki is a relationship-clarity tool for adults. Therapy, legal or medical advice, emergency help, and trusted human support each have a different role.

Does Niki diagnose NPD?

No. Niki does not diagnose NPD or any mental-health condition, and it will not produce a narcissism probability, toxicity score, or personality verdict.

Is Niki only for women?

Niki is designed for adults across genders, orientations, and consensual relationship structures.

What happens when I use the walkthrough?

The walkthrough uses one prewritten composite, a fixed follow-up, sample memories, and guided choices. Your selections and generated clarity note stay in the browser and clear when you refresh. If you later join the waitlist, the signup can include only a yes-or-no walkthrough-completed flag.

What is Niki designed to organize?

Niki’s long-term memory is a private, user-controlled Moment log that separates observations, impact, interpretations, needs, counterexamples, repetition, and repair. Every pattern should link back to its source moments and stay editable or forgettable.

Is Niki free?

Pricing has not been chosen. The optional waitlist question helps us understand whether people prefer free access, a modest subscription, or a one-time format.

When can I use Niki?

Waitlist members will hear first about early access and research according to the consent choices they make. A release date will be shared when it is ready.

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Use the unsubscribe link in any Niki email. It opens a confirmation page and requires a deliberate action, so email security scanners cannot remove you by accident.